“This body of ours is impermanent, like a feather on a high mountain pass. “

Machig Labdron

Last week I was sent an invitation to a retreat. it was called “7 day ‘Create Your Life’ Self-Development Retreat” and it promised it would also be life-changing.

Some of my clients at the moment are grappling with the issue of how to avoid slipping into co-dependency in their relationship, whilst maintaining a grounded sense of self. I’m grappling wth this too.

I was talking to a client recently and he was grappling with an issue that many of us also face in our own relationships. How far do we compromise for the sake of the other person? Here is a frivolous example from my own life.